WHY IS PEOPLE GOD DAMN NOT HELPING THEMSELVES?

when you tried to help a person solving problems, but the person never seems to help himself/herself. What can you do?
Do people ever think of themselves?
Why can people build up their dignity and pride of themselves?
How do you show care and concern to someone who can't open a door to accept it?
What to do with them when they are thinking negatively?
HOW WHY AND WHAT?!
oh god just help me.
Look, life is full of imperfection, and that's what makes it god damn perfect.
& if people can't accept those little flaws made by themselves or others, then for fuck live on Earth?
Or maybe Earth is just another word, with no meanings and importance. Because people are fucking living a fucking life without fucking thinking of what they fucking are meant to fucking be.

Is it so difficult to be yourself? How will people know about your god damn importance when you don't fucking care about yourself. What's life man. A word? fuck no. It's something that you control, you give life to it, you give freedom and speeches to it. YOU COMMAND IT. not others. Not a single soul can control your damn life. stuck with it, or change it. damn.

is it a sin to help people? is it a sin to love people? If so, then God is committing a sin isn't it?!
come on, this doesn't make sense at all. How you look at things, are what you are? i don't know..
If theres no obstacles for you to face in life, then THERES NO LIFE AT ALL. right?

"everything's gonna be alright." "don't worry" "hey cheer up"
whats all this? Its just words without meaning. when you say it, do you mean it?
So many things. Trying to solve them, but more just keep coming in. I'm trying. To keep them away for problems. God, help them. All of them, who are pessimistic.
Life has a purpose. A purpose to fulfil their job. Give them strengths.

I'm just tired. But I'm not saying these are nonsense. These are real cases. I just wanna help, and thats all.